The Dappled Odysseys

I’d like to share a recent experience that has deeply impacted me on my journey as a blind individual aspiring to ride horses.

The desire to ride these magnificent creatures has been a dream of mine for quite some time. However, when I reached out to inquire about horse riding lessons, the response I received left me feeling a mix of emotions – sadness, disappointment, frustration, and even anger.

Horse riding has always held a special place in my heart. The idea of connecting with these graceful animals and experiencing the freedom of riding resonated with me on a profound level. So, with great enthusiasm, I decided to inquire about lessons, hoping to embark on this adventure. However, the response I received was far from what I had anticipated.

The instructor’s words were disheartening. They simply stated, “Well then no, just like driving, if you cannot see to steer it just won’t work.” It was a response that immediately cast doubt on my dream and capabilities as a blind individual. I couldn’t help but feel a deep sense of sadness and disappointment.

As the reality of the response sunk in, a mix of emotions welled up within me. I was sad that my dream seemed to hit a roadblock, upset by the lack of willingness to explore possibilities, and even angry at the assumption that blindness equated to incapability. It was a challenging moment, to say the least.

Despite this initial setback, I am determined not to let it define my journey. I believe that with the right instructor, adaptations, and a supportive environment, my dream of horse riding can become a reality. While I haven’t found the right place to ride yet, my determination remains unwavering.

This experience has reinforced my belief that determination and perseverance can overcome even the most disheartening responses. My journey to ride horses as a blind individual continues, and I hope to share the progress and eventual achievement of this dream with all of you. It serves as a reminder that we should never let others define our capabilities based on preconceived notions.